Collaborative Naivete: Post 83
I have a stack of books awaiting review. It remains my goal for 2010 to make more time to read and review new works as a value-added service to loyal readers.
Something called out to me about Confident Voices: The Nurses’ Guide to Improving Communication and Creating Positive Workplaces, written by Beth Boynton and edited by Bonnie Kerrick:
- In Collaborative Insight, I saluted the nurses who helped me improve my bedside manner and my communication skills; although I may not have been as forthcoming as I would have liked to be upon receiving their feedback, in retrospect, how nice it is to know that they considered me trainable
- I think that many of us career-focused physicians come late to value relationships and teamwork in facilitating a practice environment in which we enjoy coming into work
- My wife is a nurse, who shares with me her workplace challenges occasionally
I admit that I found stories in this book, like certain medicines, difficult to swallow but (in the long run) beneficial:
- A nurse, finishing her first year of training, confessed that she was finally used to being yelled at (p.122)
- Connie, an experienced ED nurse in a new hospital was chewed out by a physician for not telling him about laboratory values soon enough in a patient whom Connie suspected of having internal bleeding (p.142); the nurse who relieved Connie for lunch dismissed the issue with a shrug, saying that the values had come back just a minute ago; Connie’s nursing colleague dismissed the situation with a comment that everyone has to earn their stripes; her nursing supervisor told her not to be so sensitive; a nurse reviewer recalled the catch phrase in the 1980’s that “nurses eat their young”
I entitled my post Collaborative Naivete because I felt unaware of the interpersonal difficulties that existed among nurses. In reality, I was aware but did not want to acknowledge my awareness because resolving conflicts is a subject in which I had no formal training during medical school, residency, or fellowship. Only within the last decade, have I come to realize that conflict is inevitable in times of disruptive change and that acknowledging it can bring about more robust solutions than pretending that conflict does not exist, the principal theme of my second book, Collaborate for Success!
I recommend Confident Voices: The Nurses’ Guide to Improving Communication and Creating Positive Workplaces not only because it is good medicine but also because it has practical guidelines to help us improve the practice environment where we work. For example (p.128-130), giving and receiving feedback:
- Check to see if your feedback is desired
- Use specific events rather than hot-button words that judge or exaggerate (like always or never)
- Focus on behavior rather than personality
- Ask the person for his or her opinion
- Listen actively, validate the other person’s input, and thank the person
- Reflect upon the feedback to create greater self-awareness
Although it disturbed me to learn that the ED nurse ended up leaving her job, I was happy to learn that she pursued graduate study and found a nurse-manager position in another ED that had a zero-tolerance policy for workplace bullying, which included training for all staff, including senior management.
Approximately two decades ago, my wife encountered similar feelings of resistance as a CCU nurse when we moved from Boston to New York. Had I read or been exposed to a resource like Confident Voices, I could have been more supportive and nurturing rather than telling her that she was experiencing growth pains.
What do you think?
- Have you experienced workplace bullying or do you know someone else who did
- What does it do to people’s confidence and judgment to experience bullying
- What are the implications for patient care if we continue to ignore workplace abuse
As always, I welcome your input to improve healthcare collaboration.
Kenneth H. Cohn
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Disclosure:
I have a material connection because I received a review copy of this book.
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